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Polyamory Guidebooks

Some of the links in this post are affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. If you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission at no extra cost to you. All opinions remain my own. In a perfect world, COVID (WEAR YOUR FUCKING MASK … Continue reading Polyamory Guidebooks

Hunting the Mythical Unicorn, an Unethical Tale

As previously discussed in Isn’t Polyamory Just Cheating?, polyamory (shortened as poly or polyam) is having, or being open to having, multiple committed relationships with the KNOWLEDGE and CONSENT of everyone involved.  Polyamory comes in many different shapes, sizes, and colors.  One of those designs is a triad or a trio of persons who are in … Continue reading Hunting the Mythical Unicorn, an Unethical Tale

UPDATE! Sixteen New Terms in the Glossary

Agender: a person who is without gender. Binary: A word meaning “two of” used to describe social understandings based on the two common genders; either male or female Cis-cis: a person who identifies as such because of their assigned sex and they maintain traditional gender roles and psychological feelings in accordance with their assigned sex. … Continue reading UPDATE! Sixteen New Terms in the Glossary

UPDATE! Two New Terms in the Glossary

Bisexual erasure/invisibility: the tendency to ignore, remove, falsify, or reexplain evidence of bisexuality in history, academia, the news media, and other primary sources. Noetisexual: a mental attraction rather than a purely “intellectual” one and being attracted to the way their minds work rather than simply one ill-defined facet of it. Photo by Waldemar Brandt on Unsplash  

13 Sex, Kink, and Lifestyle Podcasts

Erotic Awakening Dan & Dawn 4.2 out of 5.0 290 Ratings An informative and entertaining exploration of all things erotic. From sacred sexuality to fetishes, Power Exchange and polyamory, BDSM to erotic spirituality, non-standard relationships to alternative love styles, as well as simply fun kink. Savage Love The Stranger 4.6 out of 5.0 4.5K Ratings Dan … Continue reading 13 Sex, Kink, and Lifestyle Podcasts

13 Relationship, Polyamory, and Swinger Podcasts

Trifecta Love The Trifecta 5.0 out of 5.0 22 Ratings Welcome to our podcast! Hosted by Carly, Paoulo, and Kassandra. 3 people in 1 relationship. We take you through our journey of love and life in our polyamorous relationship. We started this podcast to break the stigma around non-monogamous relationships and share with you what … Continue reading 13 Relationship, Polyamory, and Swinger Podcasts

UPDATE! Three New Terms in the Glossary

Limerence: The state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship. Also known as New Relationship Energy (NRE). New Relationship Energy (NRE): The exciting feeling at the beginning of every relationship. This can last … Continue reading UPDATE! Three New Terms in the Glossary

No means No. Silence means No. Drunkenness means No.

An incident occurred this weekend that spurred possibly the most important topic when it comes to relationship and sex: Consent. Before we go into what happened, let's discuss the definition of consent: According to Wikipedia, "consent occurs when one person voluntarily agrees to the proposal or desires of another". Merriam-Webster defines consent as "compliance in … Continue reading No means No. Silence means No. Drunkenness means No.

UPDATE! Three New Terms in the Glossary

Graphoerotica: The kink or fetish of writing and/or drawing on your partner. Nullo: The abbreviation of Total Genital Nullification. This is the act of removing the genitalia completely or making it unusable. Total Genital Nullification: This is the act of removing the genitalia completely or making it unusable. Photo by Romain Vignes on Unsplash

UPDATE! Two New Terms in the Glossary

Queerplatonic (or quasiplatonic): a relationship that is not romantic but involves a close emotional connection (platonic) beyond what most people consider friendship. The commitment level in a queerplatonic relationship is often considered to be similar to that of a romantic relationship. People in a queerplatonic relationship may be of any romantic or sexual orientation. A … Continue reading UPDATE! Two New Terms in the Glossary