One of the worst calls I could receive plagued my missed calls a few weeks ago. The return phone call was nerve-wracking. A cheerful office assistant asking how I could be helped didn't negate the fear and the time waiting for my transfer to be completed felt thrice as long as normal. The resolved voice … Continue reading Crotch Cooties and How to Avoid Them
A fellow member of a kink related group on Facebook asked about kink related holidays, and it got me wondering what sort of sex, love, and kink holidays are there? I've always been interested in unique holidays and even have a favorite website for learning about new holidays. Holiday Insights has always been my source … Continue reading Holidays of Sex, Love, and Kink
I am still on my How I Met Your Mother kick. Admittedly, I paused watching it to watch Psych, because one, there was supposed to be a new Psych movie released in December (it got pushed back) and two, my Hulu kept fucking up and the sound and video would be off. It was like watching a poorly … Continue reading HIMYM’s Lily’s 50 Reason to Have Sex
In the last couple of weeks, we've been discussing podcasts surrounding sex, polyamory, swinging, kink, and other sex-positive communities. There's one that deserves to be highlighted above all others, and it's not because they had me on their podcast as a guest host. Take a peek behind the leather curtain for all things kink, BDSM, … Continue reading Recording with NVT Studios & K101 Podcast
Trifecta Love The Trifecta 5.0 out of 5.0 22 Ratings Welcome to our podcast! Hosted by Carly, Paoulo, and Kassandra. 3 people in 1 relationship. We take you through our journey of love and life in our polyamorous relationship. We started this podcast to break the stigma around non-monogamous relationships and share with you what … Continue reading 13 Relationship, Polyamory, and Swinger Podcasts
There's been a lot of posts on Facebook lately about Languages, be it Love Languages, Self Love Languages, or Apology Languages. Maybe it's just my friends, or maybe it's a trend that's flowing through all of Facebook. Most of the information on Facebook has been in the form of pictures with a grid that described … Continue reading The 5 Languages of Love
This is a seven-part series touching on everything from your metamour and paramour tag-teaming to tea you to the numerous metaphors used to describe your polycule’s calendar. Thank you to all of my polyamorous family in the multitude of Facebook groups I’m in for their contribution to this post. By no means is this list … Continue reading You Know You’re Polyamorous When Vol. 2
Let's face it, we've all been there. We've fallen for someone hard enough that when the relationship inevitably ends we shatter into pieces. It's no wonder they call it "falling" and "breaking". 🙄 I've personally been going through the process of getting over a break-up. In How to NOT Transition into Polyamory, I talked about … Continue reading Don’t Go Breaking My Heart
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Limerence: The state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship. Also known as New Relationship Energy (NRE). New Relationship Energy (NRE): The exciting feeling at the beginning of every relationship. This can last … Continue reading UPDATE! Three New Terms in the Glossary
An incident occurred this weekend that spurred possibly the most important topic when it comes to relationship and sex: Consent. Before we go into what happened, let's discuss the definition of consent: According to Wikipedia, "consent occurs when one person voluntarily agrees to the proposal or desires of another". Merriam-Webster defines consent as "compliance in … Continue reading No means No. Silence means No. Drunkenness means No.
Happy Pride Month and Happy National Sex Day! Similar to our discussion on Gender Identities, in the effort of full disclosure and to ensure minimum backlash for this post, I am by no means an expert on sex, gender, or expression of either. I am a demi-bisexual, heteroromantic woman. Should any of what is said in … Continue reading Sex Sex Baby. Sex Sex Baby.
Need some sexy motivation, sensual instigation, or kinky stimulation? Listen to this playlist and comment your own additions. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6XgGEFUYW9rauYCIgDBO0T Photo by Blaz Photo on Unsplash
Happy Pride Month, my lovely peoples. In the effort of full disclosure and to ensure minimum backlash for this post, I am by no means an expert on sex, gender, or expression of either. I am a cisgender woman; I was assigned female at birth and I express myself as female. Should any of … Continue reading Cis, and Trans, and Non-binary, oh my!
How did I transition into polyamory? Well, I woke up one day and said you know what...I can love two or more people equally and so I was polyamorous! 😂😂😂 If only breaking into any lifestyle was that easy. 😩😩😩 My pathway into non-monogamy and polyamory isn't one I recommend, but it's a path I'm … Continue reading How to NOT Transition into Polyamory
There's this inevitable desire to Google anything you don't understand or want to learn more about. Unfortunately, Google is only as strong as the content created by us bloggers and companies. In that respect, a lot of the information portrayed online is biased, lacking full information, or just flat out wrong. In regards to polyamory, … Continue reading Isn’t Polyamory Just Cheating?